是接受现实，还是尝试改变

"How did you do it, Dad? How have you managed to not take a drink for almost 20 years?" It took me almost 20 years to have the courage to even ask my father this very personal question. When Dad first quit drinking, the whole family was on pins and needles every time he got into a situation that, in the past, would have started him drinking again. For a few years we were afraid to bring it up for fear the drinking would begin again. 

　　"I had this little poem that I would recite to myself at least four to five times a day," was Dad’s reply to my 18-year-old unasked question. "The words were an instant relief and constant reminder to me that things were never so tough that I could not handle them," Dad said. And then he shared the poem with me. The poem’s simple, yet profound words immediately became part of my daily routine as well. 

　　About a month after this talk with my father, I received a gift in the mail from a friend of mine. It was a book of daily affirmations with one affirmation listed for each day of the year. 

　　It has been my experience that when you get something with days of the year on it, you automatically turn to the page that lists your own birthday. 

　　I hurriedly opened the book to November 10 to see what words of wisdom this book had in store for me. I did a double-take and tears of disbelief and appreciation rolled down my face. There, on my birthday, was the exact same poem that had helped my father for all these years! It is called the Serenity Prayer: 

　　God, grant me the Serenity to accept the things I cannot change; the Courage to change the things I can; and the Wisdom to know the difference. 

　　编者按：平静地接受那些不能改变的事情，勇敢地尝试能有所改观的事情，并智慧地辨析两者的差别。看清自己，努力尝试，便无悔此生。

相关单词：reminder

reminder解释：n.提醒物，纪念品；暗示，提示

reminder例句：

I have had another reminder from the library.我又收到图书馆的催还单。

It always took a final reminder to get her to pay her share of the rent.总是得发给她一份最后催缴通知，她才付应该交的房租。

相关单词：profound

profound解释：adj.深奥的，造诣深的；深度的，极度的

profound例句：

I give you my profound thanks for saving my life.我对您的救命之恩深表谢意。

He has a profound knowledge of mathematics.他数学知识渊博。

相关单词：automatically

automatically解释：adv.不加思索地，无意识地，自动地

automatically例句：

The machine cycles automatically.这台机器自动循环运转。

She had automatically labelled the boys as troublemakers.她不假思索地认定这些男孩子是捣蛋鬼。

相关单词：appreciation

appreciation解释：n.评价；欣赏；感谢；领会，理解；价格上涨

appreciation例句：

I would like to express my appreciation and thanks to you all.我想对你们所有人表达我的感激和谢意。

I'll be sending them a donation in appreciation of their help.我将送给他们一笔捐款以感谢他们的帮助。

相关单词：serenity

serenity解释：n.宁静，沉着，晴朗

serenity例句：

Her face,though sad,still evoked a feeling of serenity.她的脸色虽然悲伤，但仍使人感觉安详。

She escaped to the comparative serenity of the kitchen.她逃到相对安静的厨房里。