One windy spring day, I observed young people having fun using the wind to fly their kites. Multicolored creations of varying shapes and sizes filled the skies like beautiful birds darting and dancing. As the strong winds gusted against the kites, a string kept them in check.
Instead of blowing away with the wind, they arose against it to achieve great heights. They shook and pulled, but the restraining string and the cumbersome tail kept them in tow, facing upward and against the wind. As the kites struggled and trembled against the string, they seemed to say, “Let me go! Let me go! I want to be free!” They soared beautifully even as they fought the restriction of the string. Finally, one of the kites succeeded in breaking loose. “Free at last,” it seemed to say. “Free to fly with the wind.”
Yet freedom from restraint simply put it at the mercy of an unsympathetic breeze. It fluttered ungracefully to the ground and landed in a tangled mass of weeds and string against a dead bush. “Free at last” free to lie powerless in the dirt, to be blown helplessly along the ground, and to lodge lifeless against the first obstruction.
How much like kites we sometimes are. The Heaven gives us adversity and restrictions, rules to follow from which we can grow and gain strength. Restraint is a necessary counterpart to the winds of opposition. Some of us tug at the rules so hard that we never soar to reach the heights we might have obtained. We keep part of the commandment and never rise high enough to get our tails off the ground.
Let us each rise to the great heights, recognizing that some of the restraints that we may chafe under are actually the steadying force that helps us ascend and achieve.
在一个有风的春日，我看到一群年轻人正在迎风放风筝玩乐，各种颜色、各种形状和大小的风筝就好像美丽的鸟儿在空中飞舞。当强风把风筝吹起，牵引线就能够控制它们。
风筝迎风飘向更高的地方，而不是随风而去。它们摇摆着、拉扯着，但牵引线以及笨重的尾巴使它们处于控制之中，并且迎风而上。它们挣扎着、抖动着想要挣脱线的束缚，仿佛在说：“放开我！放开我！我想要自由！”即使与牵引线奋争着，它们依然在美丽地飞翔。终于，一只风筝成功挣脱了。“终于自由了，”它好像在说，“终于可以随风自由飞翔了！”
然而，脱离束缚的自由使它完全处于无情微风的摆布下。它毫无风度地震颤着向地面坠落，落在一堆乱草之中，线缠绕在一颗死灌木上。“终于自由”使它自由到无力地躺在尘土中，无助地任风沿着地面将其吹走，碰到第一个障碍物便毫无生命地滞留在那里了。
有时我们真像这风筝啊！上苍赋予我们困境和约束，赋予我们成长和增强实力所要遵从的规则。约束是逆风的必要匹配物。我们中有些人是如此强硬地抵制规则，以至我们从来无法飞到本来能够达到的高度。我们只遵从部分戒律，因此永远不会飞得足够高，使尾巴远离地面。
让我们每个人都飞到高处吧，并且认识到这一点：有些可能会令我们生气的约束，实际上是帮助我们攀升和实现愿望的平衡力。
相关单词：darting
darting解释：v.投掷，投射( dart的现在分词 )；向前冲，飞奔
darting例句：
Swallows were darting through the clouds. 燕子穿云急飞。 来自《现代英汉综合大词典》
Swallows were darting through the air. 燕子在空中掠过。 来自辞典例句
相关单词：gusted
gusted解释：n. 突然一阵 n. 风味 vi. 猛吹
gusted例句：
The wind gusted up to 45 miles an hour. 风力达每小时45英里。
As the strong winds gusted against the kites, a string kept them in check. 一阵强风刮向风筝，一根弦控制住了风筝。
相关单词：cumbersome
cumbersome解释：adj.笨重的，不便携带的
cumbersome例句：
Although the machine looks cumbersome,it is actually easy to use.尽管这台机器看上去很笨重，操作起来却很容易。
The furniture is too cumbersome to move.家具太笨，搬起来很不方便。
相关单词：restriction
restriction解释：n.限制，约束
restriction例句：
The park is open to the public without restriction.这个公园对公众开放，没有任何限制。
The 30 mph speed restriction applies in all built-up areas.每小时限速30英里适用于所有建筑物聚集区。
相关单词：tangled
tangled解释：adj. 纠缠的，紊乱的 动词tangle的过去式和过去分词
tangled例句：
Your hair's so tangled that I can't comb it. 你的头发太乱了，我梳不动。
A movement caught his eye in the tangled undergrowth. 乱灌木丛里的晃动引起了他的注意。
相关单词：lodge
lodge解释：v.临时住宿，寄宿，寄存，容纳；n.传达室，小旅馆
lodge例句：
Is there anywhere that I can lodge in the village tonight?村里有我今晚过夜的地方吗？
I shall lodge at the inn for two nights.我要在这家小店住两个晚上。
相关单词：obstruction
obstruction解释：n.阻塞，堵塞；障碍物
obstruction例句：
She was charged with obstruction of a police officer in the execution of his duty.她被指控妨碍警察执行任务。
The road was cleared from obstruction.那条路已被清除了障碍。
相关单词：restrictions
restrictions解释：约束( restriction的名词复数 )； 管制； 制约因素； 带限制性的条件（或规则）
restrictions例句：
I found the restrictions irksome. 我对那些限制感到很烦。
a snaggle of restrictions 杂乱无章的种种限制
相关单词：opposition
opposition解释：n.反对，敌对
opposition例句：
The party leader is facing opposition in his own backyard.该党领袖在自己的党內遇到了反对。
The police tried to break down the prisoner's opposition.警察设法制住了那个囚犯的反抗。
相关单词：tug
tug解释：v.用力拖(或拉)；苦干；n.拖；苦干；拖船
tug例句：
We need to tug the car round to the front.我们需要把那辆车拉到前面。
The tug is towing three barges.那只拖船正拖着三只驳船。
相关单词：chafe
chafe解释：v.擦伤；冲洗；惹怒
chafe例句：
The foaming waves chafe against the rocky shore.汹涌的波涛猛烈地冲击着礁岸。
A stiff collar may chafe your neck.硬的衣领会擦伤你的脖子。
相关单词：ascend
ascend解释：vi.渐渐上升，升高；vt.攀登，登上
ascend例句：
We watched the airplane ascend higher and higher.我们看着飞机逐渐升高。
We ascend in the order of time and of development.我们按时间和发展顺序向上溯。
