Most of us long for relationships in which we are loved and accepted just the way we are. Our hearts' desire is to give and receive love in relationships that make us feel that even if others disagree with what we do or say, they still love us. They accept us. They appreciate our contributions to the world.
While it would be wonderful to have these types of relationships with all people, we know that that's hard to do. We can, however, have them with some others, but only when we first have them with ourselves and, ironically, this is often the hardest relationship of all.
One of the reasons many of us find it hard to love ourselves is because we do not realize that we are already loved in the most divine(神圣的) way. God loves us, totally and unconditionally. It's hard for many of us to believe this fact because we know how imperfect we are, and we believe we have to be perfect before God will love us.
The truth is that God's love makes us perfect, even with our imperfections(残次品) . By knowing this truth intellectually and believing it spiritually, we not only love ourselves more; we love others more as well.
Do you love yourself? You may think you do, but do you really? There's only one way to find out by taking a closer look at what you think, say, and do. You may not like some of what you find, but if you're serious
Here are three ways I've found for gaining greater personal insight for deeper love.
Listen to your words and listen even more closely to your thoughts. Why? Because your words and your thoughts will determine your actions. One of the things that has helped me to listen to my thoughts has been to keep a journal. It is not necessary for you to write in it everyday, but it helps to record various insights you gain as you go
Instead of using a big notebook, you might use a small note pad that you can keep in your purse or pocket for easy access to record your thoughts as they occur to you. (I've found that if I don't immediately write down ideas and insights as they come, it's hard to remember them later, at least with the same degree of clarity(清楚,明晰) .
Whichever method you choose, what's most
Be honest with yourself by paying attention to your actions. Actions speak louder than words, and they always tell the truth. What do your actions say
On the other hand, if you say you're not good at a certain job, but your actions say otherwise, that's also
Take time out during the day for quiet time to listen to your inner voice. I call this inner voice the voice of God. This is similar to point number one, but it takes it a step further - beyond the natural mind to the supernatural heart. You may want to use your quiet time to meditate(考虑,计划) or pray.
However you use this time, the key is to shut out all of the noise around you by focusing deep within yourself. Breathing deeply during quiet time will also help you focus. I know it's hard to find quiet time during a particularly busy day, but it's so
Quiet time can really make a difference in your life. It enables you to hear God speaking to your heart reminding you of His perfect love for you.
Despite what your subconscious may be telling you, you can have love with no limits. The key is to unconditionally love yourself first.
相关单词:divine
divine解释:adj.神的,上帝的,神圣的,如神的,非凡的
divine例句:
Jesus is believed by Christians to have been divine.基督教徒们相信耶稣是神。
The despot claimed to be the chosen instrument of divine providence.专制者声称自己是上天选定的统治工具。
相关单词:unconditionally
unconditionally解释:adv.无条件地
unconditionally例句:
All foreign troops must be withdrawn immediately and unconditionally. 所有外国军队必须立即无条件地撤出。
It makes things very awkward to have your girls going back unconditionally just now! 你们现在是无条件上工,真糟糕! 来自子夜部分
相关单词:insight
insight解释:n.洞察力,洞悉,深刻的见解
insight例句:
Good teachers have insight into the problems of students.好的教师能洞察学生的问题。
The research will provide direct insight into molecular mechanisms.这项研究将使人能够直接地了解分子的机理。
相关单词:insights
insights解释:洞察力( insight的名词复数 ); 洞悉; 领悟; 顿悟
insights例句:
This is a book full of profound, original and challenging insights. 这本书充满了深刻、新颖、令人深思的见解。
Because his judgement was prudent, his insights were central to any consultation. 因为他考虑问题很慎重,所以他的意见在每次磋商时都最受重视。
相关单词:clarity
clarity解释:n.清澈,透明,明晰
clarity例句:
His writing has great clarity of style.他的写作风格清晰易懂。
Mozart's music is characterized by its naivety and clarity.莫扎特的音乐特色是纯朴兴清澈。
相关单词:meditate
meditate解释:v.想,考虑,(尤指宗教上的)沉思,冥想
meditate例句:
It is
I was meditating,and reached a higher state of consciousness.我在冥想,并进入了一个更高的意识境界。
相关单词:sneak
sneak解释:vt.潜行(隐藏,填石缝);偷偷摸摸做;n.潜行;adj.暗中进行
sneak例句:
He raised his spear and sneak forward.他提起长矛悄悄地前进。
I saw him sneak away from us.我看见他悄悄地从我们身边走开。
相关单词:subconscious
subconscious解释:n./adj.潜意识(的),下意识(的)
subconscious例句:
Nail biting is often a subconscious reaction to tension.咬指甲通常是紧张时的下意识反映。
My answer seemed to come from the subconscious.我的回答似乎出自下意识。