如何面对突如其来的死亡

   2016-09-14 沪江网0
核心提示:As the Buddha once famously said, life is suffering. To love is to lose. In the natural order of things, we will eventually lose our own parents and in the natural order of thing, this will happen after we're already adults. Except when it

As the Buddha once famously said, life is suffering. To love is to lose. In the natural order of things, we will eventually lose our own parents and in the natural order of thing, this will happen after we're already adults. Except when it doesn't.

 

I lost my dad when I was young -- suddenly, in a car crash. I never had a chance to say goodbye. He never had a chance to see me grow from a messed up girl into a much-less-messed-up woman. He died worried about me. I live with this. And yet, his early death shaped and transformed me in enormously positive ways. I grew up. I've spent my life trying to make him proud.

 

We metabolize these sudden losses like shocks to our system, and they continue to live inside of us like fault lines, like the traumas they are. Ask anyone who has experienced any kind of shocking loss and they will tell you: the air today is just like it was on that day; the scent of hibiscus, of an oil refinery, of powdered donuts, brings it back.

 

And suddenly the tears pool in our eyes, our hearts crack open. We live in all the beautiful, human brokenness of these losses. Our awareness becomes our teacher. Perhaps it even helps us to embrace the ordinary as the amazing turn of circumstance that it is.

相关单词:Buddha

Buddha解释:n.佛;佛像;佛陀

Buddha例句:

Several women knelt down before the statue of Buddha and prayed.几个妇女跪在佛像前祈祷。

He has kept the figure of Buddha for luck.为了图吉利他一直保存着这尊佛像。

相关单词:traumas

traumas解释:n.心灵创伤( trauma的名词复数 );损伤;痛苦经历;挫折

traumas例句:

She felt exhausted after the traumas of recent weeks. 她经受了最近几个星期的痛苦之后感到精疲力竭。

Conclusion: Safety lens of spectacles can protect the occurrence of ocular traumas. 结论:安全镜片可以预防眼镜碎片所致的眼外伤。 来自互联网

相关单词:scent

scent解释:n.气味,香味,香水,线索,嗅觉;v.嗅,发觉

scent例句:

The air was filled with the scent of lilac.空气中弥漫着丁香花的芬芳。

The flowers give off a heady scent at night.这些花晚上散发出醉人的芳香。

相关单词:refinery

refinery解释:n.精炼厂,提炼厂

refinery例句:

They built a sugar refinery.他们建起了一座榨糖厂。

The purpose of oil refinery is to refine crude petroleum.炼油厂的主要工作是提炼原油。

相关单词:awareness

awareness解释:n.意识,觉悟,懂事,明智

awareness例句:

There is a general awareness that smoking is harmful.人们普遍认识到吸烟有害健康。

Environmental awareness has increased over the years.这些年来人们的环境意识增强了。

 
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